5 Unhealthy Mental Habits That You Need To Stop Now
March 15, 2019 β’ By PRETTY GIRLS SWEAT
Thereβs a lot to be said about the balance of weight loss or weight gain and a healthy mentality. I wanted to touch on the mental health involved in a workout program because I have also struggled with forming bad mental habits that coincide with the gym. Sometimes, we mess up during our diet, or our gym time was less-than-perfect. Maybe we had to miss a workout altogether because we had a heavy workload! This is merely a reminder that one mistake is not going to interfere with progress and an even bigger reminder that part of a healthy lifestyle is a healthy mentality related to food, the gym, and comparison to others.
Over the years, I have come across or even personally experienced the following bad habits that I think many women (and men) struggle with. Itβs great that youβre very dedicated to your fitness, but I want you to go through this list and use it to check in with yourself and your mind. Are you being kind to yourself and allowing some βwiggle roomβ for the occasional mistake or well-needed day off?
Here are the five habits that could be sabotaging your mental healthβ¦
1. Overcompensating:
I canβt tell you how many times Iβve over-exercised at the gym the day after a junk-food meal. This was during the beginning of my fitness journey, and I feel like it burned me out. I was so caught up trying to βfixβ mistakes, and I was exhausted.
Solution: DONβT work out extra. First of all, you can injure yourself by pushing too hard. Second, one bad day does not affect you so much that you need to over-exercise to fix it. Instead, pick up the next day with your usual routine and continue on. Itβs really that simple!
2. Eat little or no dinner if youβve messed up during lunch:
This is not a great habit to even begin. Restricting or skipping a meal will actually slow your metabolism down. Youβre body counts on you to feed it a constant stream of calories and vitamins, and you and your body deserve it!
Solution: Think about each βhealthyβ choice you make as a move in the right direction. If you had doughnuts for breakfast, eat some veggies at dinner. Itβs not about overcompensating, itβs about trying to make each choice better than the last. There will never be a time that missing a meal will be the answer.
3. Checking in with the scale:
This is for my weight-loss and weight-gain Sweat Sisters! I know itβs been said: but your weight is just a number and really doesnβt represent the changes your body has made. If youβre trying to lose weight, the pounds may go up a bit as your body composition changes from fat to muscle! If youβre trying to gain weight, you may notice a drop if youβre losing fat! Muscle takes time to build, donβt be discouraged.
Solution: Throw away the scale (or restrict how much you use it). Progress pictures are the best way to see your results. Plus, it takes the whole number thing out of representing your body. Each body is unique, so using a single number system to measure the changes is outdated. Snap a new photo every two weeks and watch how much happier your mind is!
4. The guilt of a missed workout:
Itβs disappointing when you canβt get to the gym sometimes, but itβs not going to change your progress. This habit coincides with overcompensating with your next workout, and itβs something you shouldnβt feel you have to do! If you canβt get to the gym, donβt sweat it! Tomorrow will be better, and the gym isnβt going anywhere.
Solution: Plan a rest day! On the days you know youβll be busy, take it off ahead of time! The gym should be a stress-free place, so trying to squeeze it into your busiest days may end up doing the opposite. You have to take care of your body too, sis!
5. Comparing yourself to others:
We all have goals, but we are on a journey and should love ourselves through the entire process. Itβs easy to look at someone and wish that was you. However, thereβs something so rewarding about working towards what you want. No matter what size youβre at now, thereβs no one else out there quite like you.
Solution: Instead of comparing, ask this person for advice. Whatβs their favorite protein snack? Do they have any cool leg moves you need to try? There may be some valuable information you can incorporate into your goals, and thatβs great! Remember, youβre striving to be a healthier version of yourself, and part of that is remembering to love yourself!